One of my best friends recently came out as gay after 27 years, and today we were on his car and he was like “this new Lady Gaga album is really good. I was so impressed I wanted to make a status saying that, if she did more works like this, she could be this generation’s Liza Minelli but then I stopped and realized that was too gay of a post.” We were quiet. “Then I noticed I was already out and posted it cause hey, I AM gay.”
good for him.
about me: dark blond hair and light brown eyes are exactly-the-same-color.
I’m secretly anime.
I feel so pressured lately. This is a real issue I’ve been dealing with lately, it’s making me very anxious and making me contemplate things. It’s like I have to be in a relationship or I have to have sex or I have to be interested in a man. It’s like, my whole life nobody questioned me being alone because I was fat so “clearly” I was “disgusting and undateable” so I never “had a choice” but now, if I don’t have someone, I’m the one who’s weird.
I can almost feel like my family and friends are waiting for me to come out as a lesbian or as asexual or whatever and I feel really pressured, like, I don’t want anything out of it and though only very few people have addressed this issue with me, I feel like I’m being forced into something and it’s freaking me out.
I take Zimbio’s taunting very seriously when I can get all the questions in a trivia quiz right. And, at the same time, the “you got everything right” messages are not even that congluratory.